ok to put it bluntly I want someone who is fairly mature and i don't mean age cause ladies can be in their 50s or 60s but have the mentality of a teenager i am talking about any gal from 18 to 40 that has her head on straight likes to have a guy around but doesn't need the man to wait on her like a slave, I am disabled but i dont like my back injury hold me down even though i do have some weight limitations. I am not saying i don't want to pamper a woman but i don't want it to get to where everything is about her and her alone i want it to be mutual. I would like for her to be able to hold her own possibly have a job or some sort of income weather she is disabled too or works as long as it is a legal job. I am usually attracted to more of the bbw type but i do not judge by looks it is more of how you treat me and act if you are respectful, loyal, honest, and will fight for what you want you are my type. I would like to exchange photos to at least see a face cause even though i do not judge by looks there has to be some chemistry or the other things i like will go to the wayside. I will enclose a couple of photos myself if you like what you see message me and in the subject put " i do believe" that way i know you are real. and yes i am real we warmed up to the 60s almost 70 but it is starting to cool off again, if you decide you want to meet i have a car and i own my own house even tho i am working on it so my living room is full of windows and doors.